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BRAND X

Orphaned transracial international ungrateful insurgent Class Bastard.

Posts tagged orphan

Apr 15 '13
mirkwood:

Now imagine you’re an “objective” racist white scientist who decides to give a group of black men a STI and, instead of treating them for it, watch them slowly suffer from it so you can study it FOR SCIENCE.
Now imagine you’re the white supremacist sexist medical establishment that denies women the right to get their tubes tied unless they already have loads of kids and require them to get their husband’s permission while at the same time forcibly sterilising legions of native and black women.
Now imagine you’re an “objective” racist psychologist who decides that slaves wanting to escape is a psychological disorder called “drapetomania” and the “cure” for that is lashings and cutting off toes.
Now imagine that you’re the “objective” and “scientific” medical establishment that deems queerness a disorder and decides that electroshock treatments or lobotomies are the effective solution or feels the need to “intervene” by surgically altering the bodies of intersex infants to fit your perceptions of what genitalia should look like.
Religion has done a lot of fucked up shit. But I’m sick and tired of people acting like SCIENCE hasn’t been involved in wars, death, and genocide either. And it’s the assumptive bullshit notion that ALL religions are somehow stupid and not worth your consideration that perpetuates this colonialist bullshit approach that white people have now upon Native and other individuals when tribes fight for the right to their sacred lands of, “Oh you’re religion is just hooey!” 
First they “civilised” us with religion and now it’s science and repatriation. Stealing native lands and native artefacts and native bodies FOR SCIENCE so you can profit off of them.
If you’re going to lay in on the death religion causes, IMO you better realise that there’s a difference between the bastion of white supremacist cisheteropatriarchy that is modern Christianity and other religions which have little in the way of social power in comparison. AND you better recognise that science can be just another extention of white supremacist cisheteropartiarchy too and FURTHER the goals of that power structure rather than being as “objective” as they claim and countering it.
Haha. Imagine that.
Also, Ricky Gervais is a jerk.

May I add to this the cephalic index and institutionalized, eugenicist programs wherein orphaned and homeless children constitute “threat to mankind.”

mirkwood:

Now imagine you’re an “objective” racist white scientist who decides to give a group of black men a STI and, instead of treating them for it, watch them slowly suffer from it so you can study it FOR SCIENCE.

Now imagine you’re the white supremacist sexist medical establishment that denies women the right to get their tubes tied unless they already have loads of kids and require them to get their husband’s permission while at the same time forcibly sterilising legions of native and black women.

Now imagine you’re an “objective” racist psychologist who decides that slaves wanting to escape is a psychological disorder called “drapetomania” and the “cure” for that is lashings and cutting off toes.

Now imagine that you’re the “objective” and “scientific” medical establishment that deems queerness a disorder and decides that electroshock treatments or lobotomies are the effective solution or feels the need to “intervene” by surgically altering the bodies of intersex infants to fit your perceptions of what genitalia should look like.

Religion has done a lot of fucked up shit. But I’m sick and tired of people acting like SCIENCE hasn’t been involved in wars, death, and genocide either. And it’s the assumptive bullshit notion that ALL religions are somehow stupid and not worth your consideration that perpetuates this colonialist bullshit approach that white people have now upon Native and other individuals when tribes fight for the right to their sacred lands of, “Oh you’re religion is just hooey!” 

First they “civilised” us with religion and now it’s science and repatriation. Stealing native lands and native artefacts and native bodies FOR SCIENCE so you can profit off of them.

If you’re going to lay in on the death religion causes, IMO you better realise that there’s a difference between the bastion of white supremacist cisheteropatriarchy that is modern Christianity and other religions which have little in the way of social power in comparison. AND you better recognise that science can be just another extention of white supremacist cisheteropartiarchy too and FURTHER the goals of that power structure rather than being as “objective” as they claim and countering it.

Haha. Imagine that.

Also, Ricky Gervais is a jerk.

May I add to this the cephalic index and institutionalized, eugenicist programs wherein orphaned and homeless children constitute “threat to mankind.”

6,657 notes (via glitterlion & onlytruthmatters)Tags: science white supremacy pseudoscience eugenics kyriarchy religion genocide orphan homeless colonialism

Mar 23 '13

3 notes (via fairyonacidbanging)Tags: adoptee orphan bastard planet fairyonacidbanging translucentwings

Mar 18 '13

8 notes Tags: orphan adoption adoptee ableism harry potter adoption industry

Mar 11 '13

annamae4319 asked: Hi! I’m the writer of the Parakletos[127] blog you recently reblogged. You made a big deal about one line. I should have been more clear. I want to adopt & would be happy adopting a physically deformed child. I think it’s horrific if someone uses looks as an excuse not to adopt someone. The point of that part was to say that people need to stop thinking of themselves when they adopt & consider that those thoughts could hurt the child. Thanks for bringing this to my attention. Keep in touch!

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lol. for all the new followers (holy peas where’d yall come from?) & folks still unfamiliar with the basic workings of the adoption industry, this isn’t your run-of-the-mill, clueless whitesplainer^ though you’d be justified in thinking so given how dead boring she is

nope. we got ourselves a bona fide, bible-thumping CULTIST who’s “passionate about adoption, marriage and the Church [sic]” and cut her career teeth at Focus on the Family.

You know, that evangelical institute propagating “therapy” to “rectify unwanted homosexual attractions and behavior.” fucking google it.

if you happen to be survivor of such heteronormative pseudoscience, you know just how physically dangerous that shit can be for anyone, much less orphaned children, cuz when it comes to us they kill two birds with one stone as being adopted can totally lead to “disorders” like not being properly attached/grateful to your Forever Family enough to be straight for them, didn’t u kno?!

Anyhoo most of you are aware of FOTF’s shit, everything from defunding Planned Parenthood to opposing gay marriage— what’s much lesser known is how the Christian Evangelical movement actually CO-FOUNDED the contemporary adoption industry, and how the White Savior narrative inherent in transracial/national adoption especially plays into the Evangelical’s literal agenda to adopt and subsequently indoctrinate children all over the world:

The ultimate purpose of human adoption by Christians, therefore, is not to give orphans parents… It is to place them in a Christian home that they might be positioned to receive the gospel.[X]

This explains why kidnapping, corruption, and coercion are consistently revealed as comprising the norm for both international & domestic adoption in Western countries NOT the exception.

Anyway, I don’t have any attention to award to smarmy hate-mongerers who shouldn’t be allowed within a 10k radius of any child— but in this case I spose I’ll deign to say “you’re welcome”

(for christ’s sake you’d think I’d get some actual thanks for drawing unprecedented traffic & attention to this bible freak’s blog that no one knows/cares about as it’s so basic on TOP of its bigotry. Ah well.)

[Post made rebloggable by request]

10 notes Tags: adoption white savior industrial complex colonialism LGBTQ orphan parakletos127 ask pseudoscience evangelical christian transracial adoption industry history child trafficking

Mar 11 '13
Some of these adoptees, when looking to make connections with others who feel the same way, conduct a simple web search for “adoption” and are overrun with information for pet adoptions. I have experienced the same thing while looking for like-minded blogs and informational resources for Parakletos. This gives the impression that there are more people who care about (or are simply more aware of) animal “orphans” than human beings who have been adopted, have adopted, or are in need of a loving family. This is why Paraklētos and many other organizations exist. We want to help raise awareness that adoption is out there and, when done well, is a beneficial and beautiful thing to behold and to participate in. All of the identity crises, guilt, negative feelings, and emotional neglect that some adoptees feel can be avoided and eliminated when families are simply made more aware of these issues, the need to healthy families, and the necessity of adoptions around the world.

Paraklētos: When Adoption Goes Wrong: Emotional Neglect 

The whole tumblr’s your typical Christian evangelical hellbent on ridding the world of “orphans” because the bible told them to do so. But this bit from that quote stood out to me: 

“All of the identity crises, guilt, negative feelings, and emotional neglect that some adoptees feel can be avoided and eliminated when families are simply made more aware of these issues”

I don’t know how loudly adoptees have to scream at so-called “advocates” that LOVE. ISN’T. ENOUGH. 

And really, family awareness isn’t the end all be all either. Even with the most progressive and understanding parents, an adoptee still may have identity issues, which in and of themselves are vast, varied, and complicated. So promoting the idea that these issues are “forever family” fixable just sets up adoptees to feel more guilt for not being able to rid themselves of those feelings.

You’ve failed from the get go. We are people and not things to “fix.” 

The only service you can provide is putting your bible on the shelf and shutting up when it comes to adoptees and adoption. I’m not kidding. You all do far much more damage than you realize. 

(via dustoffvarnya)

“Ridding the world of orphans” whilst simultaneously & ever so CONVENIENTLY largely increasing their own numbers, indoctrinating entire generations of non-Western children into loving our own goddamn oppressors and their agendas to continue colonizing and raping our birth countries & cultures, thus eradicating any “threat” to White Western Christianity

also these tags of dustoffvarnya merited preservation:

35 notes (via dustoffvarnya & parakletos127)Tags: adoptee adoption colonialism christianity white supremacy dustoffvarnya orphan

Mar 11 '13

annamae4319 asked:

Hi! I'm the writer of the Parakletos blog you recently reblogged. You made a big deal about one line. I should have been more clear. I want to adopt & would be happy adopting a physically deformed child. I think it's horrific if someone uses looks as an excuse not to adopt someone. The point of that part was to say that people need to stop thinking of themselves when they adopt & consider that those thoughts could hurt the child. Thanks for bringing this to my attention. Keep in touch!

image

lol. for all the new followers (holy peas where’d yall come from?) & folks still unfamiliar with the basic workings of the adoption industry, this isn’t your run-of-the-mill, clueless whitesplainer^ though you’d be justified in thinking so given how dead boring she is

nope. we got ourselves a bona fide, bible-thumping CULTIST who’s “passionate about adoption, marriage and the Church [sic]” and cut her career teeth at Focus on the Family.

You know, that evangelical institute propagating “therapy” to “rectify unwanted homosexual attractions and behavior.” fucking google it.

if you happen to be survivor of such heteronormative pseudoscience, you know just how physically dangerous that shit can be for anyone, much less orphaned children, cuz when it comes to us they kill two birds with one stone as being adopted can totally lead to “disorders” like not being properly attached/grateful to your Forever Family enough to be straight for them, didn’t u kno?!

Anyhoo most of you are aware of FOTF’s shit, everything from defunding Planned Parenthood to opposing gay marriage— what’s much lesser known is how the Christian Evangelical movement actually CO-FOUNDED the contemporary adoption industry, and how the White Savior narrative inherent in transracial/national adoption especially plays into the Evangelical’s literal agenda to adopt and subsequently indoctrinate children from all over the world:

The ultimate purpose of human adoption by Christians, therefore, is not to give orphans parents… It is to place them in a Christian home that they might be positioned to receive the gospel.[X]

This explains why kidnapping, corruption, and coercion are consistently revealed as comprising the norm for both international & domestic adoption in Western countries NOT the exception.

Anyway, I don’t have any attention to award to smarmy hate-mongerers who shouldn’t be allowed within 10k radius of any child, much less one who’s already lost their family — but in this case I spose I’ll deign to say “you’re welcome”

(for Christ’s sake you’d think I’d get some actual thanks for drawing unprecedented traffic & attention to this bible freak’s blog that no one knows/cares about as it’s so basic on TOP of its bigotry. Ah well.)

2 notes Tags: evangelical LGBTQ white savior industrial complex adoption industry colonialism gif white opinions ask annamae4319 parakletos127 Eurocentric orphan adoptee child trafficking

Mar 11 '13

When Adoption Goes Wrong: Emotional Neglect

parakletos127:

When we think about the potential negatives associated with adoption, we tend to automatically think of how things could result badly for potential parents: Will I love her enough? Will they turn into delinquents I don’t want to deal with? Will he pose any kind of physical harm to me? What if she end up with expensive health problems? What if they aren’t attractive when they’re older?

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What if they aren’t attractive when they’re older?”

“What if they aren’t attractive when they’re older?”

“What if they aren’t attractive when they’re older?”

“WHAT IF THEY AREN’T ATTRACTIVE WHEN THEY’RE OLDER”

ok so before I said that there was no conflict of interest between me embarking on beauty blogging and going HAM on the intersectional Eurocentric ableist clusterfuck that comprises the adoption industry

what I should’ve said is that it actually makes PERFECT sense for me to blog about the most superficial standards of beauty in tandem with profoundly political ish because for one second I dared forget that physical attractiveness is truly one of the LIFELONG demands us “orphans” have to live under imposed by our own oppressors who also claim to be our “Forever” families (see My Adopted Daughter Is The Most Beautiful Child In The Third World)

35 notes (via parakletos127)Tags: beauty orphan adoption industry reactive attachment disorder are you fucking kidding me transracial ableism

Feb 9 '13

To the insignificant bio spawn removing me as the source on my posts about foster care and the adoption industry

There are certain individuals who know as much about this ish as I do, but there is literally no one on the planet who knows more. I am a transracial, international adoptee from a “Third World” country torn apart by war. I am a second generation adoptee, as in my adoptive parent and ALL siblings were adopted, albeit domestically. I’m a “disrupted” adoptee, meaning that after my “rescue” by White Saviors(tm), I survived criminal abuse and was subsequently abandoned into foster care, where I also survived human trafficking (my handler was one of the rare few prosecuted and shut down for warehousing children via transnational pipeline) and the federally subsidized junk “therapies” that make Gitmo look like a midnight stroll. I’m the go-to primary source for more international child advocacy groups and NGOs than you ignorant nobodies can imagine, every word I type and virtual gesture I make is a veritable gift to yall:

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but seriously go FUCK yourselves.

(Source: brandx)

3 notes Tags: brandx fuck you adoption transracial orphan foster care

Feb 5 '13
uschivonschnauzer:




halfalipsticklesbian:




kikismisandryservice:




[MAJOR TRIGGER WARNING: child abuse, death]
lightspeedsound:

















4-Year Old U.S. Adoptee Killed by “Water Therapy”
[TRIGGER WARNING: child abuse, death] As his 4-year-old adopted daughter Cassandra lay dying, Richard Killpack blamed her condition on “emotional problems” and “a really bad case of RAD [Reactive Attachment Disorder]” in his 911 call.
Killpack and his wife Jenette had punished the child for sneaking sips of her sister’s drink by sitting her on a bar stool, tying her hands behind her back with the help of their biological daughter, and forcing her to drink a lethal amount of water.
EMTs found the child unconscious with distended belly and pink foam from her mouth. Medical examiners declared cause of death water intoxication, a condition in which over-abundance of water causes sodium levels in the body to drop, resulting in fatal swelling of the brain.
“I said, ‘You’ll have to go to Mom and do the drinking-water thing,’” the Killpacks’ biological daughter Heather said in a police interview. ”She makes her drink ‘til she pukes.”

The Killpacks insist they were using “water therapy” to cure their adopted child’s disorder, stating in TV appearances that under the rules set by attachment therapists, Cassandra had to ask for everything, including food and water, “to help her understand dependency, that her mom and dad loved her.”
Sources: CNN |ACT













LE WHAT THE FUCK




i hope these people get burned alive. 




This poor baby. :(




oh god. That poor little baby. There are no words. I am no expert, but I do know some of the techniques used for RAD treatment. NONE of them violate or abuse the child. None that I know of. That hurts so bad to read. This is unacceptable.




OP here, and of all the oppressively shit-brained commentary that’s floating around this posting of mine, you white bio spawn who claim to know something about RAD yet refuse to actually read the damn article in full are the worst.
Seriously, one boggles at the mindless privilege of you folks WHO CAN’T EVEN BE BOTHERED TO SKIM THE DIRECTLY HYPERLINKED SOURCES BEFORE SHOOTING OFF YOUR IGNORANT MOUTHS ABOUT THE SYSTEMIC CHILD ABUSE AND MURDER THAT IN YOUR COMPLETE FUCKING IGNORANCE YOU HELP PROPAGATE.
“NONE of them violate or abuse the child. None that I know of.” And there we have the nature of privilege in a nutshell.
(Yes peeps I know I’m going all caps!lock Harry, but a) I am actually a magical freaking orphan, and b) that ass started it.)
I refuse to repeat myself, there aren’t enough spoons in the world. I’ll only deign to say that it’s not just Third World transracial war “orphans” like myself you’ve just made a foolish asshole of yourself in front of, it’s also my fellow Class Bastards who are white domestic adoptees invariably diagnosed with this Eurocentric pseudoscientific “RAD” bullshit and then tortured accordingly, ESPECIALLY if they happen to be queer (read the damn linked sources, fool).
You’re welcome.

uschivonschnauzer:

halfalipsticklesbian:

kikismisandryservice:

[MAJOR TRIGGER WARNING: child abuse, death]

lightspeedsound:

4-Year Old U.S. Adoptee Killed by “Water Therapy”

[TRIGGER WARNING: child abuse, death] As his 4-year-old adopted daughter Cassandra lay dying, Richard Killpack blamed her condition on “emotional problems” and “a really bad case of RAD [Reactive Attachment Disorder]” in his 911 call.

Killpack and his wife Jenette had punished the child for sneaking sips of her sister’s drink by sitting her on a bar stool, tying her hands behind her back with the help of their biological daughter, and forcing her to drink a lethal amount of water.

EMTs found the child unconscious with distended belly and pink foam from her mouth. Medical examiners declared cause of death water intoxication, a condition in which over-abundance of water causes sodium levels in the body to drop, resulting in fatal swelling of the brain.

“I said, ‘You’ll have to go to Mom and do the drinking-water thing,’” the Killpacks’ biological daughter Heather said in a police interview. ”She makes her drink ‘til she pukes.”

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The Killpacks insist they were using “water therapy” to cure their adopted child’s disorder, stating in TV appearances that under the rules set by attachment therapists, Cassandra had to ask for everything, including food and water, “to help her understand dependency, that her mom and dad loved her.”

Sources: CNN |ACT

LE WHAT THE FUCK

i hope these people get burned alive. 

This poor baby. :(

oh god. That poor little baby. There are no words. I am no expert, but I do know some of the techniques used for RAD treatment. NONE of them violate or abuse the child. None that I know of. That hurts so bad to read. This is unacceptable.

OP here, and of all the oppressively shit-brained commentary that’s floating around this posting of mine, you white bio spawn who claim to know something about RAD yet refuse to actually read the damn article in full are the worst.

Seriously, one boggles at the mindless privilege of you folks WHO CAN’T EVEN BE BOTHERED TO SKIM THE DIRECTLY HYPERLINKED SOURCES BEFORE SHOOTING OFF YOUR IGNORANT MOUTHS ABOUT THE SYSTEMIC CHILD ABUSE AND MURDER THAT IN YOUR COMPLETE FUCKING IGNORANCE YOU HELP PROPAGATE.

“NONE of them violate or abuse the child. None that I know of.” And there we have the nature of privilege in a nutshell.

(Yes peeps I know I’m going all caps!lock Harry, but a) I am actually a magical freaking orphan, and b) that ass started it.)

I refuse to repeat myself, there aren’t enough spoons in the world. I’ll only deign to say that it’s not just Third World transracial war “orphans” like myself you’ve just made a foolish asshole of yourself in front of, it’s also my fellow Class Bastards who are white domestic adoptees invariably diagnosed with this Eurocentric pseudoscientific “RAD” bullshit and then tortured accordingly, ESPECIALLY if they happen to be queer (read the damn linked sources, fool).

You’re welcome.

2,339 notes (via uschivonschnauzer-deactivated20 & brandx)Tags: uschivonschnauzer cassandra killpack reactive attachment disorder pseudoscience tw: child abuse bio spawn adoption LGBTQ transracial orphan

Feb 1 '13
I had lines inside me, a string of guiding lights. I had language. Fiction and poetry are doses, medicines. What they heal is the rupture reality makes on the imagination. I had been damaged, and a very important part of me had been destroyed - that was my reality, the facts of my life. But on the other side of the facts was who I could be, how I could feel. And as long as I had words for that, images for that, stories for that, then I wasn’t lost.
— Jeanette Winterson

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