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Other international adoptees have rightly taken NPR to task for their typically clueless, racist article so full of FAIL that I had to make another post for length’s sake just to adequately address one part of it-
NPR profiles a couple of White Saviors(tm) from the U.S., who express the general Western frustration that it’s getting slightly more difficult to buy children of color abroad. To cut the long brainturd short:
The couple considered Guatemala, but because of a baby-selling scandal, adoptions there had been suspended.
Right. And there I gotta go the fuck auf, because
“A” baby-selling scandal…
”-A- BABY-SELLING ‘SCANDAL.”
LIKE IT’S A FUCKING SINGULAR EVENT TANTAMOUNT TO A HOLLYWOOD ACTOR’S DUI.
via Foreign Policy (which is also terribly Eurocentric but still journalistically roundhouses NPR’s pasty American Volvo-cushioned ass):
“Guatemala is a perfect case study of how international adoption has become a demand-driven business,” says Kelley McCreery Bunkers, a former consultant with UNICEF Guatemala. The country’s adoption process was “an industry developed to meet the needs of adoptive families in developed countries, specifically the United States.”
[…]Last year, 98 percent of U.S. adoptions from Guatemala were “relinquishments”: Babies who had never seen the inside of an institution were signed over directly to a private attorney who approved the international adoption — for a very considerable fee — without any review by a judge or social service agency.
If just ONE (white) American mother were literally knocked out and her baby kidnapped then sold overseas, there would be global outrage and not a single media outlet in the world would dare to euphemize it as a “scandal.” They’d call such shit for what it is - a crime and atrocity.
But when it happens to women in Guatemala on an unprecedented, massive scale?
Well, even the Americans go so far as to admit: “Adoption is and has always been deeply imbued in classism, as it is adoption’s intent and most often outcome to move a child from lower to higher-class status. This is truer today than ever, as adoption has become a business of finding children for clients.”
Here’s what happens when that classism intersects with the racist, colonial attitudes that white folks (especially NPR listeners) maintain towards PoC in foreign countries:
You can get away with buying babies around the world as a US citizen. It’s not a crime.
You think I’m joking. That’s quoting fucking verbatim from the senior special agent with U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement by Foreign Policy (same guy who investigated the child trafficking criminal who allegedly delivered Angelina Jolie’s Cambodian adoptee)
And I love how NPR, that bastion of white liberalism and self-appointed beacon of progressive politics & cultured erudition, reduced GUATEMALA of all places to coverage so obnoxious and flat out incorrect.
Of all “supply” countries colonized and forced to give up their children, Guatemala has most notorious records of corruption in foreign adoption IN THE ENTIRE WORLD. Even more than South Korea or Ethiopia (and if you know anything about international adoption, you know that’s saying something).
To the point where even after it officially closed down American adoption channels in 2008, thousands of Guatemalan children are still being processed and sent to the U.S., many of whom have been discovered to be kidnapped, with authorities expecting more.
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zuky:
North Korean adoptions approved in US
The Telegraph (U.K.)The US Congress has approved a bill which aims to make it possible for Americans to adopt orphaned North Korean children.
Yikes. :/
Oh god I wonder how many of those orphans are not actually orphans…..
some people have asked my opinion on this. i wrote about it before here.
main point: most of the children this law targets are NOT orphans. read: they have parents. this is the legal abduction of children made possible by the fact that their mothers are country-less defectors on the run - helpless to protest in china since they are there illegally.
I can already hear the white saviors defending and condoning this bullshit. I feel fucking sick.
Who gives a fuck? Both of my hisband’s sisters were born in Korea (one north, one south) and they both turned out amazing. So again….who cares?
i was adopted from south korea, along with my twin sister, and we both turned out amazing. and whattayaknow? i STILL give a fuck. the US and adoption agencies, and adoptive parents should NOT be taking advantage of the perilous situation of the mothers who are north korean defectors living illegally in china by swooping in and stealing their children.
“Kidnapped babies can turn out fine, who gives a fuck”
Compelling argument there, theemeraldmeow. Lots of abused children also turn out amazing, so who gives a fuck about child abuse, right? Kidnapping, child abuse, pshhh! Nice. Good thing most human beings are hard-wired with a social instinct which compels them to give a fuck when they see a baby coming to harm, as Mencius argued 2,400 years ago, though obviously we’ll always have a few laggards hanging around as seen above.
Survived kidnapping and far more that defies common belief, and oop, turned out far more amazing and accomplished than all my sheltered, lily-white peers combined — BIO SPAWN STAY PRESSED.
theemeraldmeow apparently wasn’t even kidnapped, maybe it’s worth hearing their reasons as to why they turned out to be a racist, provincial moron.
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casanova-frankensteins-monster:
setfabulazerstomaximumcaptain:
setfabulazerstomaximumcaptain:
yep. This was actually a ‘program’ started by the Fascist/Catholic regime in Spain during Franco’s dictatorship. The idea was to steal babies from ‘left leaning’ parents, poor single mothers and sell them to right wing parents. The Spanish Catholic church has been quiet about this, but there have been dozens of protests and lawsuits. Investigations are still going on. There’s a really interesting documentary on this, I’ll have to find it.
This is another reason why I have zero respect for the Catholic Church in Spain, or Franco sympathizers.
Well that’s a piece of history that’ll come in handy in the future, jesus Christ what the fucking fuck o_o
similar shit has happened in Ireland, too
to single mothers
And I can guarantee that this shit is happening still in countries that white people like to adopt babies from.
HOW is it that people can read stuff like this and still feel okay with adoption? “Oh, this isn’t what happened to my adopted child. He/she was abandoned/orphaned/unwanted/[insert typical adoption reason].” You know that for an undisputed fact? The second step after the actual theft of these babies is falsified documents. And then a falsified life. How can you continue to feel good about the choice to adopt? How can you say unequivocally that you know your adopted child is in a better place? How can you continue to support a practice that is fraught with corruption, fraud, and dishonesty? How can you defend adoption when there are stories and data everywhere just like this? HOW?
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Kidnapping, corruption, and coercion are consistently revealed as comprising the norm for both international & domestic adoption in Western countries — NOT the exception.
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— Ellen Coleman from Leavin’ the Delta. (via theredtree)
This.
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The Indian Adoption Project was a federal program that acquired Indian children with the help of the prestigious Child Welfare League of America; a successor organization, the Adoption Resource Exchange of North America[…]
“People have heard of the boarding-school era and know it was bad, but they don’t know our adoption era even exists,” said White Hawk, who was taken from her family on the Rosebud reservation.
Two Native people interviewed prior to the summit said they were separated from their families after hospital stays as young children, one for a rash, the other for tuberculosis. A third was seized at his baby-sitter’s home; when his mother tried to rescue him, she was jailed, he said. A fourth recalled that he was taken after his father died, though his mother did not want to give him up. A fifth adoptee described being snatched, along with siblings, because his grandfather was a medicine man who wouldn’t give up his traditional ways.
“Indians had no way to stop white people from taking their kids,” said yet another interviewee. “We had no rights.”
The aim was assimilation and extinction of the tribes as entities, as their younger generations were removed, year after year—just as it had been with the boarding schools, said White Hawk on the Association on American Indian Affairs report.
“We can’t be afraid to use words like genocide,” said summit participant Anita Fineday, White Earth Band of Ojibwe, managing director of Casey Family Programs’ Indian child-welfare programs and a former chief judge at White Earth Tribal Nation. “The endgame, the official federal policy, was that the tribes wouldn’t exist.”
Source
As many as ONE THIRD of all Native children in North America were separated from their families between 1941 and 1967, according to a report by the Association on American Indian Affairs.
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[TRIGGER WARNING] From Australia to Spain, Ireland to America[…] young mothers say they were “coerced”, “manipulated”, and “duped” into handing over their babies for adoption. These women say sometimes their parents forged consent documents, but more often they say these forced adoptions were coordinated by the people their families trusted most…priests, nuns, social workers, nurses, or doctors.
Last month, a Dan Rather Reports producer and crew were in Canberra, Australia as Parliament released the findings of an 18-month-long investigation revealing illegal and unethical tactics used to convince young, unmarried mothers to surrender their babies to adoptive homes from the late 1940s to the 1980s. And we interviewed some of the victims — adoptees and mothers separated at birth.
In some cases, mothers in Australia were drugged and forced to sign papers relinquishing custody. In others, women were told their children had died.
Single mothers also did not have access to the financial support given to widows or abandoned wives, and many were told by doctors, nurses, and social workers that they were unfit to raise a child. Senator Rachel Siewert, who oversaw the Australian Senate Committee Report, says, “We heard practices that were either illegal or unethical and downright cruel.”
Two weeks ago, a prominent Canadian law firm announced that it would file a class-action lawsuit against Quebec’s Catholic Church accusing the Church of kidnapping, fraud and coercion to force unwed mothers to give up their children for adoption.
Attorney Tony Merchant represents several hundred women who claim that when they were in maternity homes in the 1950s and 1960s, social workers, nurses, doctors, and even men and women in the employ of the Catholic Church cooperated with Canadian government officials to force or, even coerce, young women to sign away their rights to keep their child never knowing they even had a choice.
In Spain, an 80-year-old nun, Sister Maria Gómez, became the first person accused of baby snatching in a scandal over the trafficking of 1,500 newborns in Spanish hospitals over four decades until the 1980s. The babies were either stolen, sold or given away by adoption.
The two most respected books on the subject of “forced adoptions,” Ann Fessler’s The Girls Who Went Away and Rickie Solinger’s Beggars and Choosers indicate that the tactics used to procure adoptable babies in Australia, Ireland, Canada and Spain were also implemented in the United States.
We have interviewed numerous women in the U.S. who told us that they were sent to maternity homes, denied contact with their families and friends, forced to endure labor with purposely painful procedures and return home without their babies. Single, American mothers were also denied financial support and told that their children would be better off without them.
In some cases, they too were told that their babies had died. Many signed away their rights while drugged and exhausted after childbirth. Others were threatened with substantial medical bills if they didn’t surrender or were manipulated through humiliation. According to Fessler, these seemingly unethical practices were used against as many as 1.5 million mothers in the United States.
When we asked these women who say they were victims of “forced adoption” to use one word to describe their experience giving birth, here’s what they told us:
“Sad,” states Angie from Colorado, who says at age 19 her pregnancy was kept an absolute secret and that she disappeared before her infant daughter was put up for adoption against her will in 1972. “Sad,” also states Chris from Massachusetts, who gave up her firstborn through Catholic Charities in 1969.
“Trauma,” states Valerie from Toronto who says in 1970 a Salvation Army matron at the Bethany Home for unwed mothers dropped her off at Grace Hospital in Toronto to labor alone. While crying out in pain during labor, she says a nurse called her a “slut.”
(Source: brandx)
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Originally published in Foreign Policy, November 1, 2008
We all know the story of international adoption: Millions of infants and toddlers have been abandoned or orphaned — placed on the side of a road or on the doorstep of a church, or left parentless due to AIDS, destitution, or war. These little ones find themselves forgotten, living in crowded orphanages or ending up on the streets, facing an uncertain future of misery and neglect. But, if they are lucky, adoring new moms and dads from faraway lands whisk them away for a chance at a better life.
Unfortunately, this story is largely fiction.
Westerners have been sold the myth of a world orphan crisis. We are told that millions of children are waiting for their “forever families” to rescue them from lives of abandonment and abuse. But many of the infants and toddlers being adopted by Western parents today are not orphans at all[…] and there’s too much Western money in search of children. As a result, many international adoption agencies work not to find homes for needy children but to find children for Western homes.
Since the mid-1990s, the number of international adoptions each year has nearly doubled, from 22,200 in 1995 to just under 40,000 in 2006. At its peak, in 2004, more than 45,000 children from developing countries were adopted by foreigners[…]
Where do these babies come from? As international adoptions have flourished, so has evidence that babies in many countries are being systematically bought, coerced, and stolen away from their birth families. Nearly half the 40 countries listed by the U.S. State Department as the top sources for international adoption over the past 15 years — places such as Belarus, Brazil, Ethiopia, Honduras, Peru, and Romania — have at least temporarily halted adoptions or been prevented from sending children to the United States because of serious concerns about corruption and kidnapping. And yet when a country is closed due to corruption, many adoption agencies simply transfer their clients’ hopes to the next “hot” country. That country abruptly experiences a spike in infants and toddlers adopted overseas — until it too is forced to shut its doors.
Along the way, the international adoption industry has become a market often driven by its customers. Prospective adoptive parents in the United States will pay adoption agencies between $15,000 and $35,000 (excluding travel, visa costs, and other miscellaneous expenses) for the chance to bring home a little one. Special needs or older children can be adopted at a discount. Agencies claim the costs pay for the agency’s fee, the cost of foreign salaries and operations, staff travel, and orphanage donations. But experts say the fees are so disproportionately large for the child’s home country that they encourage corruption.
To complicate matters further, while international adoption has become an industry driven by money, it is also charged with strong emotions. Many adoption agencies and adoptive parents passionately insist that crooked practices are not systemic, but tragic, isolated cases. Arrest the bad guys, they say, but let the “good” adoptions continue. However, remove cash from the adoption chain, and, outside of China, the number of healthy babies needing Western homes all but disappears. Nigel Cantwell, a Geneva-based consultant on child protection policy, has seen the dangerous influence of money on adoptions in Eastern Europe and Central Asia, where he has helped reform corrupt adoption systems. In these regions, healthy children age 3 and younger can easily be adopted in their own countries, he says. I asked him how many healthy babies in those regions would be available for international adoption if money never exchanged hands. “I would hazard a guess at zero,” he replied.
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There are a couple of problematic instances and flat out errors in this article that I’ve cut, but overall it provides as good a “nutshell” introduction for outsiders to the dynamics of the international adoption industry as any.
I’ll be posting other article excerpts throughout the week, might provide firsthand commentary if I’m not too fatigued.
(Source: foreignpolicy.com)
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Veil of secrecy lifts slowly on decades of forced adoptions for unwed mothers around the globe.
Most women describe giving birth to a child as a life changing experience – in a word – “challenging”, “joyous”, “miraculous.” But generations of young, unwed women describe their experience of giving birth to a child as a nightmare – and decades later their suffering has yet to end.
From Australia to Spain, Ireland to America, and as recent as 1987, young mothers say they were “coerced”, “manipulated”, and “duped” into handing over their babies for adoption. These women say sometimes their parents forged consent documents, but more often they say these forced adoptions were coordinated by the people their families trusted most…priests, nuns, social workers, nurses or doctors.
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